I have been seeing a guy for about 9mths now. We have been very happy together but because we don’t live in the same town and both have kids we have only really seen each other one week night and alternate weekends. Sometimes we go for long periods without seeing each other and I feel more commitment is needed. He recently got divorced but has been separated from his wife for about a year and a half. We have talked about it – am I wasting my time?

Ok, I’m childfree, meaning that I don’t want kids, ever. If I was dating a girl for a while, when would be the best time to bring up kids?
Because I don’t want to waste my time with someone who wants kids. I don’t find those types of women attractive. If I have a wife, she must be childfree.
PS: Now please don’t come at me with the usual remarks, because I personally dislike children. No offense and personal attacks please.

I’m childfree and have been single for most of my life because I suspect most women aren’t my type. If I was on a date, I would love for a girl to ask if I want kids because I’ll automatically say no.
When two people are dating, who usually brings up kids? How can a man tell if a woman never wants children?
PS: I already know that women who want kids are the majority. And no “You’ll change your mind” mess.

I have a friend who recently started to date this guy with 4 kids from 4 different women. The youngest being about 3 months old. Also, my friend has a child of her own. This guy apparently is super wealthy and supposedly a nice enough guy. However, I am still very concerned about my friends choice of dating this guy….not only for her but also for her child. Am I right to be concerned? What do you think about that situation…girls and guys please chime in. Thx.

I’ve heard rumors about them dating and on Ashley Massaro’s profile on myspace, she talks about hers and Kelly’s kids.

im just wondering because i want to start dating but im not sure if my parents would approve. im 13 almost 14 so yea
thanks.

ALL my friends at school are dating, actually EVERYONE going into the 7th grade is dating at my school…even some weird kids…no kidding. I’ve never had a bf/gf…And i don’t even WANT ONE?! I don’t think thar kids shouold start dating until like 17/18. You don’t Need to date at 13, 14, 15…etc. What do you think the age kids should start dating..i think 18 i guess.

like when do adults admit that it’s really *dating* not some junior high thing…or when can you kiss in front of adults or something like that

I was dating a woman going through a divorce. She knew I didn’t want kids of my own and not a fan of kids in general She gave custody of both to her soon to be ex-husband in another state. Is that a red flag for her in general and a sign that she probably wouldn’t stick with me either? Or is it a sign that she realizes they would be happier with her ex and she can’t be there for them the way he can?

How old do you think kids be before they start dating? I have a ten year old cousin who has had three boyfriends this year so far. Of course her parents would freak if they found out, but she has them anyway… she tells me everything really, because I am the only guy in the family who wouldn’t freak out on her for dating and making out with boys lol.