What Do I Do If I Like A Guy Who Is Dating Someone?
I like this guy but he’s dating someone. He’s a really sweet guy, but if you saw him you probably wouldn’t think so. What do I do? HELP ME!
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I like this guy but he’s dating someone. He’s a really sweet guy, but if you saw him you probably wouldn’t think so. What do I do? HELP ME!
February 16th, 2010 at 7:55 am
Now when I was a young girl, we had a special magic trick we did on guys which put them under a spell of sorts.
This is what we did.
The girl wanting any given guy would wear a pretty flair skirt and nice matching blouse, but she would wear nothing underneath at all.
She then would go to a party or function or to his work place where she knows he would be at.
Usually he would notice the fact that she was wearing no bra at all first, and when she is sure he is looking, she would go on one knee as if to tie a shoe lace or tighten an ankle strap.
At that point she would allow, just for a fleeting moment for him to see right up her skirt, to where she hides the Ugly Duckling…
Just for a moment though.
Flaunting it gives the opposite effect..
Him seeing her obvious nakedness under her pretty skirt would be a vision imprinted in his mind and that would actually bother his so much that he would loose sleep over it.
He would hunt her down at any cost, just so that he could take another peek, or at least confirm his first sight (of which he is not too sure), because the moment was over just too quick…
Then he would be under her spell to do with as she pleased…
Worked every time…
February 16th, 2010 at 11:02 am
Slowly insert yourself…make you more interesting than his gf. And heaven forbid, DON”T GET TO KNOW THE GIRLFRIEND!!! It makes it akward when you guys are sorta close and now your dating her ex. I just become aloof and don’t really get to know her. I know of her, and about her, and how to be better than her, but I don’t know her. Make sense? Ignorance is bliss. You start having guilt when you know them. Anyways, make yourself available, be funny, flirty without anyone noticing, and always make him feel like it was his idea…want to sit on the couch together…say wow, I’m getting really tired…I should sit down soon. Plant yourself close to the middle, and see if you sits right next to you, or farther away. Close to you, you know you’ve won, farther away, you’ve gotta keep working. After a couple weeks though, if he doesn’t show signs of liking you, give it up. He may really like his girl, and he may find you a s*** for trying to make him cheat. So back off if you aren’t getting good signals. If you do get good signals, he may start telling you he and his gf aren’t doing too good, they were fighting, or she’s annoyed about something he did. You know your almost there then. But nows the tough part. you’ve gotta be there for him, without ever acually telling him your sorry their breaking up. Cause your not, and if he thinks you are, he’ll think your not interested in him. If he’s depressed, say “I’m sorry, but just keep smiling. Things will work out, they always do.” You’ve comforted him without acually saying you hope they get back together…see? So, yeah, then they’ll break up, and give him a week or two, and go for the kill, though he might go for you first, which is better. I’m in the middle of this right now, he’s totally interested in me, which makes my life 10 times easier. I’ll give him one more week and I bet his gf will be out of the picture. This kind of dating makes is so much more worth it, cause you really had to work for it, so good luck!
February 16th, 2010 at 5:20 pm
Chances are if he is taken, leave him alone. But if he is willing to cheat with you on his now gf than he will also cheat on you…beware of losers such as this. You don’t need someone that is taken. Wait it out and if they are not to be, it will end and open a way in for you. And maybe in the end you will be happy that you did wait. But don’t wait for long, be prepared to move on with your life, there are lots of other guys out there that are worthy of your love and affection.
February 16th, 2010 at 7:35 pm
How would you feel if someone went in and took your guy from you?
Be respectful and wait till its over between them and then move in for the kill.
You can still get close to him by being a friend.
February 16th, 2010 at 10:01 pm
Are they married or living together? Do they have children together? If the answers are no, then he’s fair game.
Don’t be surprised if the girlfriend gets angry at you, but all is fair in love and war.
February 17th, 2010 at 1:48 am
Why waste all your energy on something that’s not going to happen. Use this energy to find someone else.
February 17th, 2010 at 3:35 am
you wait it out. Thats all you can do.
February 17th, 2010 at 6:00 am
Back off he has a girl don’t wreck someone eles’s relationship for your own selfish gain.
February 17th, 2010 at 8:08 am
You sound like a whore. Leave the guy alone, he’s spoken for. And don’t forget, karma’s a *****.
February 17th, 2010 at 3:03 pm
leave him alone..hes taken..
February 17th, 2010 at 5:16 pm
Serina Serina……….FIND UR OWN GUY!!!
February 17th, 2010 at 9:19 pm
Umm, u step away from him?? Gosh, only a ***** would steal another girl’s man…