How Do I Stop My Son From Dating A Woman With Small Breasts?
My son is turning 18 soon and has recently begun dating. However his first girlfriend has very small breasts, probably an A-cup. Now god bless his heart, he loves her ever so much, but I’d like to set a firm precedent to avoid future heartbreak.
I wouldn’t want him to be ridiculed by his friends and classmates for ‘going out with a flatty’ as I would have been back in my younger years. Unendowed females are also generally emotionally unstable due to low self-esteem (I don’t want a teenage drama queen on my son’s hands!)
My biggest worry is that many years down the line, their female children would be ‘flat chicks’ as well. I’d like my son to be a spittin’ image of his old man, and to help him avoid some obvious mistakes.
Should I forbid him from dating her or let him figure it out for himself over time?
July 4th, 2009 at 1:23 am
If you feel that strongly about it, maybe you should shell out for augmentation surgery for the poor girl!
for the folks giving me thumbs down, I was being sarcastic!
July 4th, 2009 at 2:14 am
You’re an asshole for even thinking about this, if your son is happy then let it be. I’ve been dating a girl who isn’t even an A-cup for over year and she’s never had low-self esteem, even before we started dating she was always a very happy girl. We’re both 19 by the way. But all in all, if your son is happy, you should let it be and be happy for him.
July 4th, 2009 at 5:59 am
If it were me I would just let my son date who ever he wanted to date regardless of what she looked like or how big or small her breasts were, its his choice!
July 4th, 2009 at 10:41 am
You’re ignorant. Mind your business.
July 4th, 2009 at 2:25 pm
I have an idea, why don’t you date her yourself. I hear young girls love pervy old guys with hairy moobs……..you probably have enough boobs for the both of you!
July 4th, 2009 at 3:44 pm
Man I feel sorry for your wife it must be hard living with such a ********, you seem to worry to much about other women’s breast.
My wish is that your son is the exact opposite of you since you are so shallow.
In today’s world there is so much more to worry about then the size of her breasts,For ex does the women have a STD, is she a gold digger ,does she treat him like ****.
As for your grandchildren I hope that he never allows you to see them, least you put some of you shallowness off on them or you hurt your granddaughter with your rudeness.
Believe me your son’s girlfriend will be able to nourish there children just fine since that is why we have breast to begin with.
Hint to son < type question- How to stop dad from being a dick head>
July 4th, 2009 at 9:05 pm
Hey, I thought he was dating a fat chick?
July 5th, 2009 at 12:29 am
well if my “old man” was as sick as you i wouldn’t let him anywhere near you. The size of a womans breasts doesn’t matter. if she is happy with herself then so be it. I wouldn’t want my daughter to date a guy with a penis smaller than seven inches, so i guess you are out of the question. come on man you quite sick. leave your son alone to date who he pleases. i think you just want to look and fantisize about your son’s girlfriends because you have issues. get over it you nasty man!
July 5th, 2009 at 1:49 am
Oh here’s the christian supposedly, again. Dude you sure are down right prejudice about much it seems…..I feel for your children….you are very shallow! And how did your wife cope with you, I wonder? I most agree with Jennifer
July 5th, 2009 at 3:32 am
your a dick or im hoping this question is not even real.
give her a chance you jack @ss.
July 5th, 2009 at 7:00 am
He’ll be an adult, so let him make his own decisions. He knows better than you do, what type of physical features attract him. Now’s a good time to practice “letting go” and letting him grow up.
July 5th, 2009 at 8:01 am
SHALLOW HAL. LET HIM FIGURE IT OUT ALONE WHO CARES ABOUT IT YOUR HIS DAD YOU SHOULDN’T CARE ABOUT THINGS LIKE THAT., YOU SHOULD CARE ABOUT THINGS LIKE IS SHE NICE AND WILL SHE TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOUR SON AND FOREMOST GRANDCHILDREN.
July 5th, 2009 at 10:26 am
maby you should just let the kid live his life hes 18 and its his girlfriends not yours
July 5th, 2009 at 10:31 am
Isn’t there better things to be worried about instead of your sons girlfriends boobs??
July 5th, 2009 at 1:32 pm
In short, mind your own business.
July 5th, 2009 at 7:10 pm
thats an awful ting to do. way to make girls feel good about themselves. note the sarcasm. goodness. i can’t believe you want him to break up with a girl he loves over something as cruel as the size of her breast.
July 6th, 2009 at 1:08 am
UR COLD
July 6th, 2009 at 6:34 am
small breasted women are insecure from the way pigs like you view them. You probably watch way to much t.v. or too many porn magazines. It is a shame that women can not see the size of your penis by just looking at your pants.
July 6th, 2009 at 11:37 am
Sounds to me you were never an individual and ran with the crowd. A follower not a leader. Why would you want your son to be that way? If she is young, her breasts will continue to grow, she may not be an A cup forever. Teaching your son to be influenced by the people around him is not good parenting. What about doing the right thing? Being yourself, standing out. All these are qualities that will build self-esteem, not knock it down. The apparent obvious mistake I see, is you teaching your son to concentrate on the outside instead of the inside. Hopefully he will learn from your mistakes and be himself instead of one of the people who blend in instead of standing out.
July 6th, 2009 at 11:50 am
It sounds like your son has already figured things out. It sounds like you’re the one who should be forbidden to date.
July 6th, 2009 at 3:49 pm
I’m not sure if I should laugh at your ignorance or tell you how ridiculous you sound. I understand your gripe though, my flat chested gal pals all wanted implants when we were in our twenties.
July 6th, 2009 at 6:34 pm
omg. perv! i hope you dont have a wife! and the spitting image of his old man? do you have some “big chicks” and are you afraid that wont show through to your gand kids?! no, let him be. if he cares for her, thats all that matters! you should only come inbetween if there is a serious SERIOUS matter. just leave him alone, dont even bring it up to him and just forget about it.
July 6th, 2009 at 10:06 pm
oh please would you just shut up! I have a 17 yr old step sister who is very small on top and she has no problem with her body…low self esteem issues come from ppl getting picked on.
and i hope ur son does NOT end up like you.
July 7th, 2009 at 12:52 am
This is a joke right? You actually think this way? I feel sorry for your son to have to grow up with a man who will teach him to be a follower instead of a leader.
July 7th, 2009 at 5:20 am
People like you should have never been allowed to reproduce
July 7th, 2009 at 9:22 am
I think you are crazy most likely. I am wondering what you look like? I would suggest finding a hobby or something to occupy your tiny mind besides worrying about your sons girlfriends boob size. That is the oddest question I have ever heard on here.
July 7th, 2009 at 12:51 pm
Oh my god i can’t beleive this! I am a woman with breasts smaller than an a cup, I am a double a, and I am with the man of my dreams, who not only takes me for who I am, but wouldn’t change me for the world, I’m glad your son found someone to love! and I’m sorry his father is a perverted man who doesn’t care about his son’s life. Because REAL MEN, don’t break up with women because of their breast size! Your pathetic if all you do with your time is worry about your son’s girls breasts. You need a life, and a heart. I’m very sorry for your wife…
July 7th, 2009 at 3:08 pm
I’m having a hard time figuring out how this is any concern of yours. I think you should go and talk to a counselor about this unhealthy obsession you have over women’s breasts.
July 7th, 2009 at 3:33 pm
you are being shallow. Just shut up and let your son date whomever the hell he wants to date
July 7th, 2009 at 9:51 pm
maybe that used to be the way things were but they aren’t like that anymore! breast size has nothing to do with whether or not she is a drama queen and if his friends want to “laugh” at him for his choice then you should see that he relizes that they aren’t his friends after all. you should be proud that your son isn’t so superficial and shallow and you shouldn’t go anywhere near trying to encourage such stereo-typical behavior! talk about the student surpassing the teacher!
July 8th, 2009 at 4:47 am
Don’t… if she looks good she can always get implants later. You have to see the big picture dude.