Should I Go Through With This…i’m Not Physically Hurting Anyone?
Ok long story short…this guy got what he wanted from me, never called me again. I bugged him until he im’ed me and told me that he got back with is ex. I let it go and cut my losses. A week later I had a suspicion that he lied to me so I created a fake profile on the friend finder (wasn’t actually friendfinder lol!) site that i knew he ran on. It turns out that he never got back with her and he’s totally flirting and wanting to meet this girl (the fake profile) for drinks and more. I so want to tell him to meet me one night in a bar and I ‘ll actually be there in the corner reading a book all decked out wearing a sexy wig and watch him waiting around with his friends so I can eventually walk up to him and either laugh at him and tell him that his friend had other engagements for the night, or play totally dumb about it or introduce myself to his friends as the his last conquest that he dumped , I just want him to know what it feels like to be lied to and used.
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
WOW i admire you already… But do you really have the guts to go through with it….Does he really deserve it and him saying that he got back with his EX was probally his way of saying i dont want to date you anymore without hurting your feelings so playing a joke like that on him might be a bit harsh…BUT if you think he deserves it and i mean REALLY deserves the GO for it GIRL…
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
Put your energy into finding a more positive relationship. Your last one is a lost cause.
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
Why? You should have left him alone and not “bugged” him.
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
Why not? Sounds fair game.
I don’t like being lied to either.
You feel you deserve some honesty.
But not everyone is wired to think that way.
Hey wouldn’t it be even better if you had a transsexual friend to bring along?
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
My ex-boy friend was the same way but,cheated on me I went as far as slapping him and telling everyone he was a hoe. I told him I wanted to break his dick and call him broke dick, and I would be known as the dick breaker in his life. Guys like that have problems that u can’t fix. Let karma do the Job, its real. YoUr making ur self look crazy, like I did and yeah’ it hurts but,there’s nothing you can do about how that jerk is going to treat people. Just know Ur wonderful and he cant break u.
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
go for it he deserves it for blowing u off like that
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
i adore your idea
not nice to lie, but still 
…my sugestion: why not let him see and recognize you at this place – enjoy a cup of coffee by yourself, smile for having him here (this girl won’t show up) make sure that he remarks you – and then walk past him without losing more than a “hi” and a smile and leave this place without revealing YOU were the girl. he will be thinking hard… have fun lol
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
Go for it. Have fun with it. Dont let the jerk get away with it.
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
Way too much effort for a jerk… if you must post a warning on his site about what a pig he is!
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
i really dont think its worth all of that
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
This is why men say women are psycho! Sound like stalking to me. I think that it could turn around and backfire on you. I would not go through with it.
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
payback is a ***** GO GET HIM!!!!!!!!
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
u think he gives a damn.nope.hes a gold digger and an asshole
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
this totally why women get the label physco!!! guys are pigs, they get what they want and leave. Chalk this one up to beaning used and get over it. If there is a next time just use the guy for the same thing he is using you for. If you do what your saying its going to back fire big time.
But hey, if your like me i say do it and rub your $hit all in his face. If he is like me i when you did it i would tell you straight to your face you where just another piece for me. its all up to you. If you ever near me though you can use me!!! lol
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
That is so not even worth your time. What is more worthy of your time is to spend it getting over the psychological hurt imposed upon you.
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
He is a gold digger- Beware
May 11th, 2009 at 6:14 am
leave it be, you’re giving him more power by doing anything else. Next time don’t give it up so easily